Courtship and praise

Lover

ἐραστής

erastēs

Erastēs means lover; the person who is in love.

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Lysis

Plato · Diotimos Editions · 2026

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Orientation

At a Glance

  • The wordErastēs means lover; the person who is in love.
  • In LysisHippothales is the dramatic example: his praise and desire focus on Lysis.
  • Reading contextIt should not be presented as a norm obliging someone to return another’s desire.
  • A place to readThe Greek example means “the genuine lover.”
English renderings
Lover; the person who is in love

Meaning

Lover; the person who is in love.

Grammatical category: masculine noun.

Use in the book

Hippothales is the dramatic example: his praise and desire focus on Lysis. The word names a role in courtship and need not imply that the beloved reciprocates. At 212b–c lovers may think they are unloved or even hated.

At 222a the “genuine” rather than “pretended” lover is said necessarily to be loved by his darling. This startling conclusion is drawn from the current affinity argument; Lysis and Menexenus only just nod, and Hippothales is delighted. The following examination destabilizes the account. It should not be presented as a norm obliging someone to return another’s desire.

Places to read

  1. 222aτῷ γνησίῳ ἐραστῇ — the genuine lover.
  2. 204e–205c2
  3. 212b–c
  4. 222a–b2