Courtship and praise

Becoming dear

προσφιλής

prosphilēs

Prosphilēs means welcome, dear, favorably received; a person made an object of affection.

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Lysis

Plato · Diotimos Editions · 2026

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  • The wordProsphilēs means welcome, dear, favorably received; a person made an object of affection.
  • In LysisHippothales asks what conversation or action could make someone προσφιλής to his beloved.
  • Reading contextIt asks how to become welcome to a particular beloved without yet defining the relation or establishing reciprocal affection.
  • A place to readThe Greek example means “might become dear to his beloved.”
English renderings
Welcome, dear, favorably received; a person made an object of affection

Meaning

Welcome, dear, favorably received; a person made an object of affection.

Grammatical category: adjective.

Use in the book

Hippothales asks what conversation or action could make someone προσφιλής to his beloved. The adjective takes the dative παιδικοῖς, specifying the person whose affection or favor is sought. The edition renders the phrase “become a friend to,” but the Greek lemma here is προσφιλής, not φίλος.

The distinction matters for close reading: this practical request launches Socrates’ demonstration before the later explicit investigation of friendship. It asks how to become welcome to a particular beloved without yet defining the relation or establishing reciprocal affection.

Places to read

  1. 206cπροσφιλὴς παιδικοῖς γένοιτο — might become dear to his beloved.