Nor would he go about softening ⟨his⟩ voice toward his lover,acting as his own pimp with his eyes.1091At dinner he was not allowed to take the head of the radish,or snatch his elders’ dill or celery,or gobble delicacies, or giggle, or keep his feet crossed. —1092
The rival Arguments continued
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[Weaker Argument] Ancient stuff indeed, Dipolieia stuff, brimming with cicadas,and Kekeides and the Bouphonia! —1093[Stronger Argument] Yet these are the very thingsby which my schooling reared the men who fought at Marathon.You teach the moderns to wrap themselves in cloaks right from the start:enough to make me hang myself when they ought to dance the Panathenaic dances,but a lad holds out the shield of modesty and neglects Tritogeneia.1094So, young fellow, take heart and choose me, the Stronger Argument.
The Stronger Argument continued
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And you will know to hate the marketplace and keep away from bathhouses,to be ashamed of shameful things and blush if someone mocks you,to rise from your seat when your elders approach,and ⟨not⟩ behave rudely toward your own parents, nor do anything elseshameful, since you are going to shape an image of Modesty.1095Nor rush into a dancing girl’s house, lest, gaping at the spectacle,you be hit by an apple from a prostitute and chipped away from your good name.1096Nor contradict your father in anything, nor call him Iapetusand bear a grudge against the age that reared you in the nest. —1097
The rival Arguments continued
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[Weaker Argument] If you obey him in this, young fellow, by Dionysus,you will turn out like Hippocrates’s sons, and they will call you a vegetable-pap fool. —1098[Stronger Argument] Yet you will be sleek and blooming, spending your time in the gymnasia,not jabbering thorny quips in the marketplace like the moderns,nor dragged about over some sticky, quibbling, pettifogging little case.1099Instead, going down to the Academe, you will run beneath the sacred olive trees,wreathed in white reed, with a temperate companion of your own age,smelling of smilax, an untroubled life, and poplar shedding its leaves,rejoicing in the season of spring, when plane-tree whispers to elm.1100
Menander
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Whatever task you happen to be inexperienced in,it is a good thing to ask those who know it.1101
Euripides, from Rhesus
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One should learn something wise from a wise man.1102
Menander
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Far better to have learned one thing wellthan to have draped oneself poorly in many subjects.1103
Sophocles, from Women of Phthiotis
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You are young: you must learn many things,hear many things, and be taught at length.1104
⟨Unidentified tragedian⟩
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Always desire to learn something useful in addition.1105
Philemon
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I heard them myself.1106 Understanding does not growof its own accord in human beings, my good fellow,like thyme in a field;1107 but by saying something,listening to others, and observing ⟨something here or there⟩,minds keep growing little by little, they say.1108
Menander
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When you speak a great deal but do not learn,you will have taught your own lesson without learning mine.1109
Menander, from The Carthaginian
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To dislodge long-established follyin a single day is hard work.1110
Menander, from The Affectionate Brothers
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It is not easyto dislodge folly in a short time.1111
Euripides, from Meleager
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For from father and mother, when one enduresharsh regimens, the offspring are better.1112