Of passions and impulses, some are admirable, some base, and some intermediate.663 Admirable are friendship, gratitude, indignation, modesty, confidence, and pity.664 Base are envy, malicious joy, and insolence; intermediate are pain, fear, anger, pleasure, and desire.665
Choice Limits Pleasure and Pain
II.7.21.2 · Wachsmuth pp. 142
Of these, some are to be chosen without qualification, while others are to be limited.666 Every passion takes shape in relation to pleasure and pain; hence the ethical virtues also concern these.667
Vicious States and Kinds of Love
II.7.21.3 · Wachsmuth pp. 142
Avarice, love of pleasure, erotic frenzy, and similar things are states of a different kind, concerned with vices.668 One kind of love seeks friendship, another sexual intercourse, and a third both; hence one is excellent, another base, and the third intermediate.669
Varieties of Friendship
II.7.22.1 · Wachsmuth pp. 143
Friendship has four varieties: friendship between companions, between relatives, between guest-friends, and between lovers.670 Whether friendship based on benefaction and friendship based on admiration should also be counted requires discussion.671
Beginnings and Ends of Friendship
II.7.22.2 · Wachsmuth pp. 143
The beginning of friendship between companions is familiarity; of friendship between relatives, nature; of guest-friendship, need; of erotic friendship, passion; of friendship based on benefaction, gratitude; and of friendship based on admiration, power.672 Taken together, they have three ends: the noble, the advantageous, and the pleasant. For anyone who enters into friendship in any way chooses it for one of these or for them all.673
Friendship toward Oneself and Others
II.7.22.3 · Wachsmuth pp. 143
First, then, as I said before, comes friendship toward oneself; second, toward one’s children; next, toward others close to us and toward strangers.674 Hence, in friendship toward oneself we must guard against excess, and in friendships toward others against deficiency. For the former incurs the charge of selfishness, the latter of stinginess.675
Favor Requital and Remembrance
II.7.23.1 · Wachsmuth pp. 143
Charis is spoken of in three senses: the rendering of something useful for the recipient’s own sake; requital for a beneficial service; and remembrance of such a service.676 Ordinary custom has therefore also declared the goddesses three in number.677
Grace in Appearance and Speech
II.7.23.2 · Wachsmuth pp. 143
Charis also means grace in appearance or in speech, in virtue of which one person is called graceful, another charming.678
A Life with Virtue and Public Activity
II.7.24.1 · Wachsmuth pp. 143-144
The virtuous person will choose a life with virtue,679 whether he ever comes into a position of leadership because circumstances have brought him forward, whether he must live with a king, or whether he must legislate or take part in public life in some other way.680
Civic Contemplative and Educational Ways of Life
II.7.24.2 · Wachsmuth pp. 144
If none of these opportunities falls to him, he will turn to an ordinary citizen’s way of life, or the contemplative one, or the intermediate educational one.681 For he will choose both to do and to contemplate noble things.682