Resist the Beginnings, Avoid Occasions, Change One’s Location; Fair and Foul…
Pausanias, in his account of Elis, says that this is why one Cupid was depicted contending with another and taking the garland from him: because one love drives out another.
One love takes away another’s strength.
And Cicero, in book 3 of On the Nature of the Gods, debating with Gaius Cotta, mentions three separate Cupids, each with a different function.
Felix Plater, in the first book of his Observations, boasts that by this stratagem alone he cured a patient, a widower in Basel, who was infatuated with a poor woman employed as his maid. Friends, children and all persuasion had failed to turn his mind away. They proposed to him the daughter of another respectable man in the town; he loved her and lived with her long afterwards, detesting the very name and sight of the first woman.
After Lucretia’s death, Euryalus would accept no comfort until the Emperor Sigismund married him to a noble lady of his court; then, in a short time, he was freed from his sorrow.